california dreaming

I have a cousin who LOVES the state of California. As a die-hard Midwesterer, I admit that I don’t quite understand her love. I certainly hear enough strange things on the news about California government or California crime to give me reason to stay right here, but in my cousin’s opinion, we should all be hiring Los Angeles movers and headed west!

Of course, there are certainly plenty of “wannabe-actresses-turned-waitresses” who jump at the opportunity offered by LA movers. Unfortunately for them, the offer from the Los Angeles moving company will likely be the best offer they’ll see for a long, long time!!

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Swearing Characters in Teen Novels Popular, Attractive

As a writer and as a Christian, this worries me.

I don’t swear. It’s a personal choice and I don’t judge you if you choose to swear, but in my opinion, swear words are lazy adjectives. There are ALWAYS ways to describe a noun that are more expressive than swear words. Swear words are obscene, obnoxious, and show little intelligence on the part of the swearer.

On top of that, teens are impressionable. More than any other demographic, teens will follow in the behavior of their role models. If they see a character in a book who is wealthy, attractive, and popular, they will emulate that character in hopes of also becoming wealthy, attractive, and popular- including swearing.

Are we raising a generation of kids who will be too lazy to find accurate words to describe their everyday situations?

Swearing Characters in Teen Novels Popular, Attractive – ABC News.

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thoughts on sunscreen and dermatology

Lately I’ve been trying more and more to remember to use sunscreen. I have a family history of skin cancer- my mom has had Basal Cell Carcinoma spots, and my grandfather had a melanoma removed from his cheek a few years ago- so I know that I am also at an increased risk of skin cancer. I don’t always remember to put on sunscreen, but I should.

My favorite type of sunscreen is the aerosol spray- it is SO easy to put it on, since I don’t have to rub it in. Plus it’s easy to cover large areas of skin in one quick swipe! But I try to only put it on outside, since the spray does still leave a certain residue and I don’t want to funk up the carpet. If my bathroom had tile floors, it might not be so bad, but nearly my whole house is carpeted. That creates another challenge, though- I have to remember to leave the bathroom, step outside the front door, and use sunscreen. Too easy to forget! (and that’s a terrible excuse!!)

I have actually already had a particular freckle examined twice. You know how doctors are always saying that if you have a freckle that changes in any way, it needs to be checked out? When I was in high school, this freckle on my left upper arm started to bleed. Luckily at the time, I lived down the street from a dermatologist, who looked at it for free, and told me that it didn’t appear to be a problem. When I lived in Africa, the same freckle started bleeding, so I made an appointment with the doctor. He also said that he did not think it was a problem. But ever since then, rest assured, I’ve kept an eye on that spot!

No matter what, wherever I live, I always find a quality dermatologist, like these doctors, and I always will. When you have a potentially pre-cancerous spot, that’s not a good time to start looking for a doctor! It’s better to find a good doctor and visit at least once or twice before you need a doctor, so that you can establish a relationship and they can help monitor your skin!!!

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iPad

Yesterday was a busy day for me, but lots of fun! I received a much-awaited package in the mail:

A brand new third generation iPad!!

I am unbelievably impressed with Apple’s customer service. We ordered the iPad last Saturday, and by Thursday, the iPad had arrived. In less than a week, the iPad traveled all the way from China to my doorstep.

I’m absolutely loving it. I can already see so many things for which I can use this!

 

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old friends, self employment, and online education

Earlier this week, my family went to a reception to celebrate the retirement of one of my mother’s co-workers, a teacher who has worked for many, many years. While there, I got to catch up with her son, an old friend of mine who I hadn’t seen in several years. He is also a teacher but lately has been pretty fed up with education.

He was very fascinated by what I do- working with computers and working from home. He asked a lot of questions- I suspect he’s thinking about leaving education and venturing down a new career path. Of course, the first step is often the hardest, and this is no different. If he wants to try working with computers, he needs to learn about computers- not necessarily a difficult task, though potentially time consuming, and you don’t get paid for it!

Since he has a background in education, once he learns what he needs to know, he could probably slide into a career in training quite easily. Of course, finding a job isn’t easy, but if it was me, my inner entrepreneur would probably open an account with a site like Inspired Learning Management System and sell my skills to small business owners. You know- for a fee, he’ll teach you and/or your employees how to use your computer systems or website content management system.

Shoot, I’d do that if I had the time. Setting up new businesses is fun, and I’ve learned that a surprising number of business-people have a sub-par knowledge of technology. Of course, the next problem is convincing them that they NEED to invest in the education- many of those same business-people think it’s a waste of money to pay for education, not realizing that gaining technical knowledge can lead to a significant improvement in their profits!! Ah well, their loss- especially since I don’t have the time to teach them!

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Graveyard dating back to 19th century found below California construction site

How crazy is this? A California hospital decided to build another wing, and when they started digging, they discovered a graveyard. And this wasn’t a native American graveyard, but a potter’s field from the late 1800s and early 1900s, where poor and indigent people were buried.

So fascinating- can you imagine the lives these people led, to end up in California? They were poor, obviously, but they must have done many very interesting things in their lives.

Of course, can you imagine the reaction of the construction worker who discovered the first body? Oh my!

U.S. News – Graveyard dating back to 19th century found below California construction site.

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Pastor files lawsuit; Jesus wept

Did you hear about the pastor who filed a lawsuit against one of his former parishoners? Yea, I found it hard to believe too. The pastor filed a lawsuit for $500,000 in damages, claiming defamation after a woman posted negative reviews of the church online.

Man, I feel for that woman. Except for the lawsuit, I’ve been in her shoes. I’ve been a part of churches that were just crazy, pushing ridiculous extra-Biblical “laws” and issuing personal attacks against everything from my contributions to the church to my opinions on the purchase of worship furniture, and everything in between. They tore me apart and spat on the pieces. It’s a no-win situation- leaving is incredibly painful, but staying hurts even more.

I have to believe that, when this pastor filed this lawsuit, Jesus shed a tear. This just is not what He’s about.

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Power and the Presidency

Today I stumbled on this article about President Barack Obama and JP Morgan Chase. According to this article, Obama has beween $500,000 and $1 million in a JP Morgan Chase investment account, as well as up to $6 million more in treasury bills and notes. Tonight, I watched an episode of the American Experience on PBS about President Bill Clinton.

I find these men both so odd. Look at Obama. He’s got a few million dollars tucked away in his coffers. If I had a few million, I just  might quit my job and live off the interest. I would travel the world. I would certainly give a percentage of my income to the church and to other nonprofit organizations, and I’d probably also volunteer. That would be a good life. Yet Obama, with his millions, is most concerned right now with getting re-elected to the Presidency. For him, being the president would actually pay LESS than what he could earn by publishing his books or being a public speaker- but that’s what he wants.

For better or worse, Bill Clinton’s presidency will be most remembered for his affair with Monica Lewinsky. When his marriage appeared to be crumbling and he was facing impeachment, many of his advisers recommended that he resign the presidency- but he refused. He absolutely refused to leave the office of the President. In fact, right up until the end, when George W. Bush was moving into the White House, the movers were still packing up Clinton’s belongings, because he clung to the presidency right up to the last minute.

What’s the thread running through both of these men? Power. They are both appear to be most interested in the power associated with being President. It’s clearly not about the money. It’s not about supporting their marriages or families. I wonder if it’s even about what’s best for the country- because for them, all that seems to matter is power.

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Romani gypsy wedding traditions: wedding decorations, dresses, and engagements

I survived the busy wedding weekend. Of course, it was pretty easy for me- I was not in any of the wedding parties, so I just got to enjoy the fun parts. :)

I read an interesting article the other day about weddings. Of course, American weddings (generally) combine traditions from MANY cultures. White wedding gowns trace back to Queen Victoria of the British Empire. Classical music is mostly from continental Europe. Flowers and other wedding decorations come out of just about every culture. Even in Hindu, Jewish, or Muslim weddings, some of these traditions can be found.

So I was surprised (and admittedly fascinated) by the Gypsy wedding traditions presented in My Big Fat American Gypsy Wedding on TLC- at least, what I’ve read about them, since I don’t have cable television. I absolutely respect the Gypsies and their right to have whatever traditions they want to have- that is the American way. It’s just different, and hard for me to imagine a people and a place right here in America like that. There’s nothing wrong with it- it’s just different.

In fairness, the Romani Gypsies released a “rebuttal” to the television show. Not surprisingly, they say producers played up the sexual angles and some other angles that perpetuate cultural stereotypes. Nonetheless, it’s strange.

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a good day

Funny thing- I can’t really think of much to say tonight. Life is good.

Today I got some work done… called the bank and cancelled one of my credit cards… worked some more… responded to some emails… and that’s about it.

But no complaints at all. It’s been a good day. Tomorrow morning I’ll go to yoga, and tomorrow will be a busy day. Today, though, all is well.

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